With Every Christmas Card I Write
As the calendar pages turn and the years go by, it seems some long held traditions are increasingly susceptible to evaporation. Women in white gloves at Sunday services, men in dress hats and overcoats nodding to one another along busy weekday sidewalks, the far off sound of mother’s voices heard through neighborhood streets as they call their children home from outdoor play at suppertime, always adding a few more syllables than the name actually possesses. Once commonplace, I fear these sights and sounds are long gone now. One can look for them only in books, on film and in the halls of memory. Here in my own little world, I do try to keep alive meaningful customs and traditions that I sometimes fear are perilously close to the endangered list, and I think my life the richer for the effort. I still hand write thank you notes, still keep fresh flowers in my rooms, I do RSVP and I do not wear white at weddings, or after Labor Day. I take a gift when I’m invited to dinner, I attend funerals, dine by candlelight, I still even iron my sheets, God help me. And, I still send Christmas cards. In fact, one of the most delightful aspects of the entire festive season is, for me, the Christmas card. In a special wooden box, I have kept every card the Songwriter and I have sent out during the many years of our marriage. Each Christmas, as I add another, I take out all those from years past and enjoy them once more, each one reminding me of who we were then.
The hunt for the perfect card begins in the summer. For a few years in a row I had the luxury of being in Britain during the fall season when the shops were already stocked for the holidays. What bliss! No one does Christmas like the British. For three years straight, I found the perfect card there. Then the next year, naturally, I was spoiled. No card I found even approached the bar set so high by those wonderful elves in the UK. So, I decided to create my own. And lo, another tradition was born. Now it seems, everyone expects an original Christmas card from me each season and the ritual has become much more involved. But, how I do love it. With mellow strains of Perry Como, Vivaldi and Nat King Cole playing through the house, hot tea at my elbow, furry dogs under tables that are spread with papers, inks, glitters, stamps, envelopes, embossing tools...I am in complete holiday heaven. Thinking of each person as I write their name on their envelope, I am silently thankful for their friendship and wishing them well for the coming year. Yes, it is time consuming. Yes, it costs some money. But, oh is it worth it. This year I am happy to report that I am on schedule and I’ll soon be dreaming of a White Christmas once again. With every Christmas Card I write!
Above picture is my Christmas Card from 1990
As the calendar pages turn and the years go by, it seems some long held traditions are increasingly susceptible to evaporation. Women in white gloves at Sunday services, men in dress hats and overcoats nodding to one another along busy weekday sidewalks, the far off sound of mother’s voices heard through neighborhood streets as they call their children home from outdoor play at suppertime, always adding a few more syllables than the name actually possesses. Once commonplace, I fear these sights and sounds are long gone now. One can look for them only in books, on film and in the halls of memory. Here in my own little world, I do try to keep alive meaningful customs and traditions that I sometimes fear are perilously close to the endangered list, and I think my life the richer for the effort. I still hand write thank you notes, still keep fresh flowers in my rooms, I do RSVP and I do not wear white at weddings, or after Labor Day. I take a gift when I’m invited to dinner, I attend funerals, dine by candlelight, I still even iron my sheets, God help me. And, I still send Christmas cards. In fact, one of the most delightful aspects of the entire festive season is, for me, the Christmas card. In a special wooden box, I have kept every card the Songwriter and I have sent out during the many years of our marriage. Each Christmas, as I add another, I take out all those from years past and enjoy them once more, each one reminding me of who we were then.
The hunt for the perfect card begins in the summer. For a few years in a row I had the luxury of being in Britain during the fall season when the shops were already stocked for the holidays. What bliss! No one does Christmas like the British. For three years straight, I found the perfect card there. Then the next year, naturally, I was spoiled. No card I found even approached the bar set so high by those wonderful elves in the UK. So, I decided to create my own. And lo, another tradition was born. Now it seems, everyone expects an original Christmas card from me each season and the ritual has become much more involved. But, how I do love it. With mellow strains of Perry Como, Vivaldi and Nat King Cole playing through the house, hot tea at my elbow, furry dogs under tables that are spread with papers, inks, glitters, stamps, envelopes, embossing tools...I am in complete holiday heaven. Thinking of each person as I write their name on their envelope, I am silently thankful for their friendship and wishing them well for the coming year. Yes, it is time consuming. Yes, it costs some money. But, oh is it worth it. This year I am happy to report that I am on schedule and I’ll soon be dreaming of a White Christmas once again. With every Christmas Card I write!
Above picture is my Christmas Card from 1990
What a nice tradition to keep. Your friends are lucky indeed to receive one of your lovingly made cards.
ReplyDeleteAs for bygone things, the sounds of children at play is what I miss the most. It is a sad world when children aren't able to roam freely in the neighborhood.
How do I get on your Xmas card list! ;)
ReplyDeleteI keep almost every single one of the traditions you do . . . I like holding on to that stuff. It reminds me of my parents, who I know would appreciate that I do keep the old ideas alive.
Keeping up the niceties of life is so precious. The starched linen napkins and matching tablecloth, the flowers and candles reflected in crystal and silver, the warm glow of polished wood and the most megre of vittles can be made into a celebration.
ReplyDeleteSt.Nick left home made vanilla crescents, beautifully iced ginger bread and fudge in our shoes yesterday morning, to-day the family will gather in our daughter's house just down hill to celebrate the 2nd. Advent. Thrilling preparations are in train for Christmas. For years I too have made my own cards.
Before we can fully launch into the above, we shall celebrate our daughter's half century on Tuesday, and have a party on Saturday. My husband has a b-day on the 23rd. and then the grand finale with setting up the tree and celebrating on Christmas eve. Life is still full of beauty and great joy. I wish we too had a white Christmas but I suppose somewhere the sun must shine.
My love to Edward as well.
You are a girl after my own heart. I adore tradition and especially those we create with our own families at Christmas time. Beautiful post, xv.
ReplyDeleteLovely tradition. I always make mine Pamela - this year, for the first time, I am using a photograph which David took. I do so agree about keeping the old traditions alive. Enjoy your carding.
ReplyDeleteI, too, send far too many cards -- all handwritten -- no Christmas letters for us! But I've not ever done handmade cards -- how great for those who receive one of your cards!
ReplyDeleteAt Linderhof, we too, keep to the tradition of candles and flowers for dinner, polished wood and shining silver. Real napkins only for meals.
It's nice to find another kindred spirit.
Add me to the "Me Too" list though I no longer iron my sheets: with 4 children it became too time consuming. I still iron pillow cases and the border of the sheets on the guest room beds.
ReplyDeleteYour card is lovely and its recipients very fortunate indeed! happy season, Pamela and thank you for all the gifts your blog bestows on your readers.
How very lovely it must be, to be included on your Christmas card list! Traditions are soooo important. I always smile to myself when my children say something like, "But Mom, we always......!"
ReplyDeleteHappy Holidays to you and your furries.
Oh, I love your list of traditions...many we still do...
ReplyDeleteI used to make our Christmas Cards too...but it was a few years ago I stopped (It was always my fave part of the Christmas ritual too)I thought I would get them out for New Years...but didn't and haven't since. Feel guilty.
Your card you made is ABSOLUTELY beautiful! Frameable! So cozy looking! I hope you show us this years card!
handmade cards are the best, I make mine too.
ReplyDeletePersonally i think the British are starting to overdo Christmas....
Beautiful tradition! I love the fact that you keep one of the cards you send each year! I wish I would have thought of that! Your card in the post is beautiful, looks like a painting that should be on display all year round...
ReplyDeleteI must say, you are a beautiful writer. I love reading your posts.
God help us both.
ReplyDeleteI don't iron my sheets, though. ;^)
I like to read your posts out loud here at the teak topped desk and this one, as many others left me feeling as if I was tucked in a soft arm chair right there with you. Winnie and I having popped in from the cool night to have tea with you, Edward & Apple. I confess to not really partaking in many of the rituals & traditions that you speak of but I do so admire your championing of them.
ReplyDeleteWe are sending Christmas cards out this year and I must get cracking ... hugs from Nova Scotia S, Miss W Dixon, Bleet, Oliver & Gus
what a lovely image you create with a treasure box containing a card from each year of your Christmas ritual.
ReplyDeleteLife would be so sad if we did not carry on with those simple niceties like holiday cards and thank you notes.
ReplyDeleteIt is those little things that give life meaning.
I certainly will always cut flowers for my home and show those in my life how much they mean to me by writing them cards and bringing gifts to their homes.
Happy Holidays!
xo
Brooke
It's all these little traditions that add up and make the Holidays so very special. I love the idea of keeping a card you have sent in a special little box. What a wonderful keepsake box that must be now.
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Yesterday evening I sat down at our big table in the living room and did write a big bundle of Christmas cards..By candle light and the lights from the christmas tree!Every year I am happy to be there and able to write yet another Chrismas wish..
ReplyDeleteTraditions are important..:)
Pamela, You struck a nerve with that post. I endeavor to keep some of the older, more sentimental things in my life as well. When my late Mother died, I wrote hand written letters on black bordered Crane's stationery, not funeral home supplied than you cards. I don't send letters like I should or birthday cards, but I aspire to be better. I nodded when you said Vivaldi, Nat King Cole, Perry Como. I just downloaded Kate Smith's remastered Christmas album. It brings back so many memories from my childhood. Things do take extra effort, but not that much extra. Your style is very romantic and old fashioned and I love it.
ReplyDeleteIn my world, houses are white, Christmas trees are real and green and a little extra effort brings me real joy. When I retire, I will make all my christmas cards from scratch. I've done it before, I just don't have the time now.
A wonderful post. I'm about to go enjoy a cup of tea now. Give Mr. Edward a pat on the head.
It's wonderful to keep traditions. I'm surrounded by so many in the UK and each family has their own ones too. In an age of so much commercialism, it's good to be able to find some space to think about those you love and send them a well thought out card. Sometimes it can be the only contact you keep with some people so it's importance can't be underestimated.
ReplyDeleteIt is nice to hold onto traditions. I'm sure your Chritmas cards are looked forward to with anticipation by their recipients!
ReplyDeleteI handwrite a note in my Chritmas cards to update distant family and friends of our news of the year. It is time consuming but much more personal than a reproduced typed letter.
What a GORGEOUS card Pamela!
ReplyDeleteI too love tradition, and have endeavoured to make it the essential fabric of my life, especially since becoming a mother. Letter-writing and card making are two things I love, but which have fallen by the wayside the more children I have! Though as the baby years slip away I find time that is my own once more. So who knows, with luck I may actually make my cards next year!
I always enjoy reading your insightful posts.
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xo
Brooke
Lovely thoughts, and you express them so exquisitely.
ReplyDeleteAlthough I do
'computer' I still value the traditions and appreciate all who do the same.
Thank you for a beautiful blog, it's a treasure to visit.
~m.
Beautiful!! how do we get on that list!! Tee hee!!
ReplyDeleteblessings,
kari & kijsa
"What bliss! No one does Christmas like the British. For three years straight, I found the perfect card there. "
ReplyDelete--This is so so true. I can totally relate. Wonderful Post. Thank you.
I love the image you have chosen, it is so atmospheric.
ReplyDeleteI love your 1990 Christmas card too and also envy the lucky friends and family who receive your hand crafted cards. I always spend time looking for the right cards, I just couldn't send ones I didn't love myself and like you, always keep one, they go in my Christmas card scrapbook.
ReplyDeleteKeeping a record of the cards you sent out each Christmas is a unique and lovely tradition.
ReplyDeleteOh wonderful post Pam! I found great cards this year at Gumps, they're of two penquins walking down the beach together holding hands. Santa caps have been superimposed on their cute little heads. With all of the publicity about gay penguins out there - I thought it the perfect card for me and Scott. I would love to get on your card list though! :) I've got Christmas decor up at the blog of my living room, would love to know what you think!
ReplyDeleteHello! Thanks for stopping by my blog. I'm not quite sure how you found me, but welcome!
ReplyDeleteLovely blog you have here from the little bit of reading I've managed to do this morning. I'll be back to visit you as well!
I sit at my desk...joyfully taking time to write letters to friends each week...the mere act of putting pen to parchment is a thrill, and evokes memories of days gone by....
ReplyDeleteHello Pamela and Edward,
ReplyDeleteThank you for stopping by my blog :)
Wow, Your trinket boxes and blog are fabulous!
We are kindred spirits.
I miss and long for Ireland when
I am not there. It is a wondrous place.
This might interest you....
AnExplorer is currently posting his blog
while on his trip to Scotland. His blog link is on mine towards the bottom.
Happy Holidays!! ~Kimme
Most people I know do not take much interest in choosing their Christmas cards. Perhaps it is because of my interest in art, but I love to carefully select a card each year, sometimes even sending away to get just the right one. It's like sending everyone a mini "artwork" I feel! One year, before we had children my husband and I made cards and that was really special! I really enjoyed your post...it gives me much to reflect on. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteGillian
I am full of admiration for all that you do.
ReplyDeleteI like the picture today,
I should take a leaf out of your book and start my cards a bit more thoughtfully and carefully, but this year they are going to be late.
ReplyDeleteAnyway I wanted to say how I feel for you on your father's anniversay..its very hard and only a year later will still be raw.
However I think the McGarrigles words are beautiful..but then I love their work..especially 'Mendocino' and 'Bundle of Sorrow bundle of joy', which we bought 26 yeas ago on our first baby's first Christmas.
I just received my box of photocards today. I wish I had thought to keep all of our cards in once place. How lovely to take them out once a year to reminisce. I plan on snuggling down with a pot of tea and addresses later this week.
ReplyDeleteI love your beautiful card! You friends are very lucky, indeed.
Beautifully said, yes tradition stiches the fabric of our lives into precious hand me downs for our children to hopefully use.
ReplyDeleteHugs Lynn xx
Traditions add that special something.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas.
Melissa
This is a wonderful post and a lovely tradition. I've sent a couple of angel drawings that I've done as Christmas cards.
ReplyDeleteReally interesting to read and I so relate to much of it. How times have changed. And I still iron my sheets!
ReplyDeleteYour card from 1990 is lovely, as are all the traditions you still keep, especially the hand-made Christmas cards - how utterly delightful! Hope you're having a fantastic weekend, and happy, happy holidays!
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